Michael:

Cudos (I think) for the balls to publish your personal porn habits on the permanently-encoded wide web of history. And for bringing to the fore an important issue for many of us. (NOTE: it would have been better to provide us with a link or two to existing studies etc. on the topic.)

Side note: your Asian fetish thing shines thru your poetic writings even before you told us so blutly here — personally I don’t think itself to be an issue — I hear you questioning it a little. We are attracted as we are, all of us for mysterious reasons. Just note that in the end you will spend the rest of your life w. someone — be sure you share values and daily habits with them. (FYI. I am happily married to a woman from Shanghai)